Sunday, February 28, 2010

An Amazing Father and Husband

I feel it past time for me to acknowledge just how wonderful my husband has been since labor and delivery. I must admit, I was unsure as to how Shane was going to be during labor. I honestly did not know how he would act or how comforting to me he would be - much less how I would want him to be during labor. Why I ever even spent time wondering, I will never know. He was attentive from the get go and when the pushing began, Shane was right there beside me, coaxing me and telling me to push when needed. He left the counting up to the nurse, but was there to hold my leg and cheer me on during such a long process.

Since that time, he has amazed me. During the days following delivery as I was trying to recover, he would do anything to help me and constantly reminded me to not over do it - (because I am Super Woman - LOL) I hated that he had to see me in such disarray - hardly being able to walk and being in pain. But he was wonderful. When we had to be readmitted to the hospital due to Camden's jaundice, Shane stayed at the hospital with us both nights in a horrible recliner, even though he had to be at school at 7:00 am. I was telling my friend the other day how it seems like my love for him is completely different since the birth of Camden. I have always loved Shane dearly, but it now seems that the love is so different and stronger - amazing.


Shane with Camden the day we arrived home

And then there is his relationship with Camden. Once again, I didn't know how he would be with an infant. He has been around little ones, but has not really seemed to show that much interest. But in his own words, it is different when it is your own. Shane is very attentive to Camden and loves to hold him and just spend one on one time with him. I was concerned that since I was breast feeding and he would not be feeding Camden that their interaction would be minimal - but I was wrong. When he gets home from school, he pays special attention to Camden and if he needs his diaper changed, then does so. We have a routine that every night from about 9:00 or 9:30 to 11:30pm is my nap time and Shane tends to Camden and gets him prepared for his midnight feeding with me. I am always dead to the world during that time, and never once worry about what those two boys are doing.





I have learned through this process to never wonder or doubt what my husband is capable of. How unfair of me. God has definitely blessed me with a wonderful husband and father of my child. I could not be any more proud of the family we have created.


Daddy's Alabama Fan - Roll Tide!!

Saturday, February 27, 2010

First Walk

Today Camden went on his first walk. It was about 60 degrees outside and just beautiful, so we decided to go on a family walk. Of course I had him bundled up and had the Cozy Cover on his carrier, so he was nice and comfy cozy. He slept the majority of the time and we only heard a few peeps out of him. I am definitely looking forward to nice warm weather so we can spend more time outside.

Camden tucked away

Sleeping while we walk

Headed inside after the walk

Friday, February 26, 2010

The Week in Review

Since my Mom and Dad left Monday morning, I have worked this week on establishing some type of schedule - gotta love being obsessive compulsive!! I feel like my life is on a three hour schedule at this given point in our lives, but I wouldn't change a thing. Camden is so wonderful and really has not been too fussy at all.......until about Wednesday when gas pains hit. I pretty much think that ANYTHING I eat gives him gas. Luckily he is able to poot, but the gas also causes him some discomfort. So, for now, we use Mylicon before every feeding - since basically you can not overdose him. He loves the taste of it, so it is really easy to give it to him. Also, it works great thus far. Unfortunately, he loves to try and help me give it to him, so it usually is always on his socks that we keep on his hands to prevent him from scratching his face.

Camden has been enjoying 'tummy time' and we are constantly amazed at how strong he is already. He can hold his head up while on his tummy for at least 6 or 7 seconds at a time. He isn't really sure at this point if he likes to be on his tummy, but is a trooper and does it for his daddy.


Yesterday, we had a great day when Sarah came over with her 11 week old sweet baby girl, Noah Catherine, and brought me lunch. It was so great to have some adult interaction and swap stories and get advice from her. Camden pretty much slept through the whole visit, so didn't really get to interact at all with his girlfriend. ; )

Here are some pictures that we have taken throughout the week.


Camden smiling as he falls asleep


Playtime on his mat


Me admiring my precious angel


Sleeping - so sweet

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Grandma and Grandpa Key

Today my dad - AKA Grandpa Key - came to visit. He has been in Missouri with his mother while my mom has been here helping me adapt to motherhood. Growing up, I always felt bad that he never had a son. My mother always told me that he was so glad he had girls and not to worry. Since then, my sister has had two boys and I have so loved watching him with my nephews. I am even more excited to watch him with my son as he ages!!



I have been so very fortunate to have my mother here with me since January 29th. She flew in to be here with me through the birth and then to help me adjust to all the changes after Camden's arrival. As thrilled as I was for my dad to come and visit, I know it means that he will be leaving and taking my mother with him on Monday. Words can not express how much my mother's time here has meant to me. As a first time mother, I have constantly questioned myself, hoping that everything I am doing is 'the right thing'. Luckily, Mom has steered me in the right direction and helped to keep me calm through all the newness, including the second hospitalization as well as all the heel sticks and doctor's visits. Thanks Mom for every thing you have done to help Shane, Camden and me through this special time in our lives. I will be forever grateful!


Camden's First Bath

Today Camden had his first real bath here at our home. Up until this time, he has had sponge baths. We have been able to give him a real bath since he lost his umbilical cord, but for some reason I had held off. Of course he cried, and of course he peed in the water - which just isn't right!!! It was fun watching the water fountain though!! : )






Friday, February 19, 2010

The Lamp

I have a funny story to share regarding Camden's room and a lamp. His nursery is a very subtle sports theme, as you can see from the pictures.



Well, I saw a lamp that had a baseball theme to it early in my pregnancy, but at that time was unsure how his nursery would be, so of course did not buy it. Since that time, I have somewhat looked for a lamp, with no luck (I think I am being too picky.) Last weekend, our next door neighbor, Tiffany, came over to see Camden and of course see his room. She liked his room, but noticed right away that he did not have a lamp, and said that she was going to get him a lamp - she knew of the perfect lamp! I was thrilled!! I have been inside of her house, and she does a really great job decorating, so I had no doubt that it would be great. Well, today Tiffany showed up with a lamp for Camden's room.

Need I say anymore regarding this lamp??? She told me that she asked the gentleman at Kirkland's about it since it had pink on it, but he told her it would be perfect and showed her the girl's lamp which apparently was pink all over. Now you are probably asking yourself, why don't you just put the lamp away? Well, after Tiffany placed the lamp so proudly in Camden's room, she said she was not finished buying him things, she was going to pick up something for his wall and would be bringing it over. So, I am stuck. I can't rightly put the lamp up because when she comes back over, I can assure you she will head straight for the nursery!

Thursday, February 18, 2010

2 Week Check Up


Today Camden had his two week check up and I also had a two week check up with Dr. D. This was Camden's first day to meet Dr. McGiffert, his pediatrician. She was never on call when he was in the hospital so we saw several of her associates during that time. He did great, he weighed 6 pounds 6 ounces and he is now 19 3/4 inches long. YEA!!!! They did a heel stick for his PKU to send in to the state of Alabama to test him for different genetic diseases, which they do with every child. As for his cold, we are doing everything we can with saline nasal drops and suctioning to help him keep his air passages clear. Dr. McGiffert thought he was doing well, but felt that Camden still appeared jaundice, and asked us to have yet another bilirubin level drawn. So after we left her office, we headed to the lab where he had yet another heel stick. This time his bilirubin was a little more elevated than last Friday when it was 10.3, it was now was 11.2. This time she did a break down of the bilirubin to see if it was direct or indirect. Direct would be a problem with his liver and gallbladder breaking it down, and indirect is just the inability to excrete it like he should, which is harder for breast fed babies. Luckily, his is all indirect and she said to just let him work through it and notify her if I notice him to be anymore jaundiced. His next appointment will be for his 2 month check up at which time he will receive the first round of immunizations (aside from his first Hepatitis B shot which he received while in the hospital).

At my two week visit, I discussed with Dr. D my placenta again. I still just can't believe how it looked at delivery and was concerned regarding having a problem if I were to have another child. She said that it definitely could have contributed to Camden's decreased growth in utero and it could happen with another pregnancy, but it is not certain that it will and told me not to let that worry me. She asked about my vision, which did deteriorate after delivery. My vision is probably as it was when I was first diagnosed with optic neuritis, but honestly that is exactly what I expected. As with prior episodes, it will improve over time and perhaps the floater that I still have will 'settle down'. She checked all her handy work that she did after delivery, and was pleased with the way I am healing. I am to follow up again with her in four weeks.

Mom, Camden and I still all have runny noses. I am so ready for Camden to feel better again, although he has been such a trooper. He has really been doing well and is really a great baby. We are so very lucky!!!


Monday, February 15, 2010

The First Cold

Well, during all the stress and hospitalizations, I acquired a very nice cough/cold. I honestly can't remember the last time I had a cold this bad. I honestly was not surprised that I got sick since I had been sleep deprived along with the stress of labor. Anyway, I have hoped and prayed that I would not transfer this horrible cold to Camden. I have taken every precaution possible, but let's face it, I am close to him the majority of the day. Well, today he started having a stuffy nose. : ( It makes me sad that I have passed something on to him that will make him feel miserable. Hopefully, the information I read that says my breast milk will help protect him and that his symptoms will not be as severe will be true.

Also, I have forgot to mention that on Friday we had snow!!! I was going to take Camden out for a picture in it, but decided otherwise! We are supposed to get a few flurries tonight also. It is soooo very cold right now! Perhaps if we do have another snow, I will get Camden's picture in it.


Sunday, February 14, 2010

Happy Valentine's Day

Happy Valentine's Day!!! My wonderful husband was so very thoughtful and had my most favorite picture of Camden printed and framed for our mantle. That, along with a nice card and good chocolate candy, made for a great Valentine's Day gift!!

Camden sporting his Valentine's socks

Today we got to say good bye to Camden's umbilical cord!! YEA!!! It really has not been a nuisance until it started falling off and has been hanging on by a thread since yesterday. So, it was nice to see it go. He is doing very well and still has to be awakened for almost every feeding. He definitely takes after his father in that department!!!

Today I made my first outing, aside from all the doctor visits and hospital admission. My mom and I went to the grocery store. Isn't that exciting??? I am finally starting to feel more like myself, and my cough/cold seem to be improving - if only I could quit coughing so these darned hemorrhoids would go away!!!! I know, more information than you probably care to know, but definitely a part of the birthing process!!

Thursday, February 11, 2010

The First Week of Camden's Life

So hard to believe that at this time one week ago I was gazing at my gift from God with amazement. This first week has been a bit busier than we expected, but full of such joy and amazement. On Thursday, we arrived at the hospital at 5:00 am and I was placed in a labor and delivery room. At DCH hospital where I delivered, they have you start in a labor and delivery room, and then an hour after delivery they move you to a room where you spend the rest of your time. Shane of course brought me to the hospital and mom didn't come until a little after 9:00 am so she could let the dogs out so they wouldn't be caged up for too long. By 6:45 am I had had an enema (first time ever) and had the Pitocin started. Dr. DiPiazza came in and checked me and then went ahead and broke my water. She told me she didn't expect me to deliver until 8:00 or 9:00 pm. I informed her we would do our best to prove her wrong!!! : ) Gradually, the nurse would turn up the medication and by 8:30 am I was feeling the contractions pretty good. The nurse kept telling me that they were going to have a lot of births that day, so if I got even close to thinking I needed the epidural to let her know, if not I could be waiting a long time. The majority of my contractions were in my back, which was so, so uncomfortable. So by 9:00 am I went ahead and asked for an epidural. By 9:30 am, still no epidural and my nurse informed me that a woman beat me to the punch, but I was next in line and it should not be too much longer. By 10:00-10:15 am, two CRNA's came in the room and I received the epidural, which was uncomfortable but bearable. (I did find out later that it was a student that put in the epidural, but she did a good job, so I won't complain.)


Me during labor - with my emesis basin


At 11:00 am, I was measuring 3cm and 80% effaced. I had already thrown up once and was very nauseated from the medication in the epidural. I asked for Phenergan, but just asked for 1/2 the ordered dosage so as not to be too out of it. Once the epidural kicked in, I didn't feel the contractions at all, and even dozed on and off for awhile. By 1:00 pm, I was starting to feel the contractions again and they turned up the medication, which again made me nauseated and I vomited yet again. I was still measuring 3 cm and 80% effaced and was a zero station, so he was at least moving on down. Dr. D had a c-section she was assisting with at lunch time and I was told she would come and check me after that. Well about 1:45 pm she came in and did indeed check me and I was 6 or 7 cm dilated and completely effaced and she said he was really low. At that time she went ahead and inserted an intrauterine catheter in order to better measure Camden's heart rate. She said I would be having him soon!!! At 2:22 pm, they turned the Pitocin off because my body had taken over and was doing what it needed to without the help of the Pitocin. By this time, I was really feeling the contractions in my left lower abdomen. I would definitely breathe through the pain. I knew there would be pain, but oh my, it was very, very uncomfortable. So again, they increased the epidural medication in hopes of helping the pain, but all it did was cause the nausea and vomiting yet again. By 3:30 pm, I was pushing for the nurse. I pushed for just a bit and then the nurse went ahead and called Dr. D, thinking it would not be too long. So Dr. D arrived, a little short of breath due to hurrying over, and we pushed, and pushed, and pushed. She put a mirror at the foot of my bed so that I could see Camden and so that I could really focus on pushing him out since it seemed he was stuck in one place. His heart rate continued to do great throughout all the pushing and they turned down the epidural so I could really feel the contractions, which gosh knows I felt every bit of it!! A little before 5:00 pm Dr. D said that we could use the vacuum to help extract him since I had been pushing for about an hour and a half and did not seem to be progressing as well as I should have been. We discussed the risk and benefits of using the vacuum and I told her to go ahead since by this time I was pretty worn down. So she had the vacuum, but it would not seem to obtain suction like it should have, so she asked the nurse for another one, and within two or three pushes and the help of the vacuum, Camden Cade Hood was born at 5:05 pm. His head was out and his cord was wrapped around his neck twice so she told me to go ahead and push him out the rest of the way. Amazingly, Camden never once had a problem with his heart rate dropping during delivery, which usually occurs with the cord being wrapped around the neck.


Camden right after delivery


Dr. D asked Shane if he wanted to cut the cord, which Shane declined, so she cut it and then put Camden on my chest. I was in such awe and amazement to see my precious gift from God. He was perfect in every way. I could not believe that my dream had finally come true.


My first time to hold my baby


So I pushed a bit more to help deliver the placenta, which from my past labor and delivery experience in nursing school, was always such a cool thing. I had already told Shane that I wanted him to look at the placenta and see how awesome it was being really smooth on one side and so vascular on the other, and how it is what supplied Camden what he needed throughout his life in my uterus. Well, when I saw mine, it was not so nice looking at all. It had holes in it and just looked bad. Dr. D told me that the cord was thin, and that definitely it was good that he delivered that day because otherwise we could have had issues. What a blessing!!! If you recall, I was never too keen on induction, but had prayed and prayed about it and felt like it was the way to go. I have never been more pleased with that decision!!! Thank the Lord!!! While I was delivering the placenta, the nurse measured Camden and weighed him and he was 6 pounds 3 ounces and 19 1/2 inches long. He has his daddy's feet and long legs - imagine that!!


Camden weighing in at 6 lbs 3 ounces


My mom holding Camden shortly after birth


So, now for the sewing - which I might add she worked on for over an hour. Dr. D went ahead and turned back on the epidural after I delivered so that it would help me through the sewing extravaganza. I had torn quiet a bit. Dr. D told me that I was so swollen down there that when she arrived to deliver, the intrauterine catheter had already tore me some and with the pushing I tore a bit more. Then, with the usage of the vacuum and not being able to stop between his head delivering and then his body, I tore quiet a bit more. She considered it second degree, but the tissue between the vagina and rectum had tore (not the muscle) so she did lots of sewing. She told me that it was very well planned, and lucky for me she is great at stitching up that area!! (Like I ever doubted that!!!) After she was finished sewing me up and I could get in a "normal" position, Camden was brought to me so we could try breastfeeding - which I must say went well. He latched on well and I was so pleased!! After we finished that, we were taken to our room where we would spend the rest of our stay. At this time Camden was taken to the nursery so they could do all the needed tests and things to him. They told us that he would be receiving his first bath and that Shane was more than welcome to be in there if he wanted. So they called us around 8:00 pm and Shane went and took pictures of his first bath.


Camden during his first bath


When Shane got back to the room, he expected for my food that I had ordered to be there for me, but somehow the kitchen closed without me ever receiving my food, and to say the least I was starving since it had been 24 hours since I had last eaten. So Shane went and got us Schlotzky's for supper, which was GREAT!!! Bless his heart, he even knew my love of cookies and tried to get cookies for me, but they didn't have any. It is definitely the thought that counts!! We had decided that Camden could stay in the nursery at night and for them to bring him to us when it was time to eat. That worked very well for the two nights we were in the hospital so that I could get a little more rest. It took until after midnight for me to even feel my legs and of course, I had not urinated since they in and out cathed me after delivery. So the nurse palpated my abdomen and could not even feel my uterus for my bladder being so distended. With the nurses help I went to the restroom and could not urinate at all. So she decided to insert a catheter, which was very uncomfortable, and I emptied 800cc of urine!!! My goodness - no wonder I was so uncomfortable. It took until mid morning for my legs to really feel back to normal. I was so uncomfortable and could not get out of bed without Shane's help and really just felt so helpless - such a horrible feeling. They did bring Camden in during the night, which he fed well again - thank goodness! I got so tickled, when Shane woke up in the morning, he asked me if they had even ever brought Camden in - he slept through EVERYTHING!!!! On Friday, Mom arrived that morning, and Shane went ahead and went home to get a shower before his family arrived. Camden was in the room a good part of the day and of course slept a lot. The nursery nurse came and got him sometime around 3:30 pm for him to be circumcised. By 4:30 pm, Shane had arrived back at the hospital and had Granny and Granddad Hood from Georgia with him. Then, within 10 minutes or so, my great friend from church, Sarah and her 8 week old daughter, Noah Catherine came to visit. It was so great to see her because we had discussed so much of our pregnancy together!! Within 20 minutes or so, Shane's mother, father and Connor arrived with a precious elephant snack basket in tow. Poor things, they were there to see Camden and he was not even in the room due to the circumcision. But luckily, within 30 minutes or so, they brought him back to the room, and fortunately he seemed very content. Dr. Ray, who is Dr. D's associate, did his circumcision, and I was informed that she does an excellent job with circumcisions!!! YEA!!!! We definitely want Camden to have a pretty penis!!! ; ) I felt kind of bad because I really wanted to hold him and comfort him and did not give Shane's family a chance to hold him. But Shane said not to worry, they had Saturday to hold him. On Saturday, Camden had lots of visitors!!! He is so loved! Several church friends visited, as well as some of my co-workers. Shane's Aunt Manya, Uncle Ronald, Uncle Ira, and Maw Maw all came from Birmingham that afternoon and visited, as well as his parents and Grandparents from Georgia.


Shane's Mom (Nana) with Camden

Shane's Dad (Pappa Ron) with Camden

Granny Hood, Manya, Mom and Camden

Manya, Ronald, Ira with Camden

Maw Maw (Shane's grandmother) with Camden


I am glad that for a short time, Camden will be near Shane's family. We were released from the hospital a little after 5:00 pm with orders to return to the hospital on Monday to see the lactation nurse and have a weight check. His discharge weight was 5 pounds 15 ounces. The car trip home was uneventful and he hardly made a peep. When we got home, Zach, the min-pin, was very curious and sniffed Camden out quiet well.


Camden upon arrival to his home.


Connor holding Camden


Sunday, Shane's family left before noon and we attempted to establish some sort of routine. Camden was proving to definitely take after his dad and be a heavy sleeper. He was not waking every 3 hours or so to feed, it was more like every 4 or 5 hours which started to worry me. He was appearing a bit yellow or jaundiced and I was concerned. In the middle of the night, I attempted to wake him to eat and could not wake him, even with a wet wash cloth. I woke up my Mom for moral support, and we decided I should call the nursery nurses for some advice. I informed them of my concern and I was told to try to get him to eat at least an ounce of formula, which with my mother's help we were able to do. Monday morning seemed to be better as far as his listlessness, and at 10:00 am we arrived at DCH Hospital to see Mona, the lactation nurse for our scheduled appointment. She weighed him and he had only lost 1 ounce from his discharge weight, so was 5 pounds 14 ounces. She noticed his lovely yellow tint and sent us to the lab for a bili check. We drove home and within 15 minutes of being home the phone rang, and it was the pediatricians office asking us to come in and be prepared to be admitted, that Camden's bilirubin level was too elevated at 18.2. So we packed him back up and went to see the pediatrician. While there, she had me go ahead and feed him formula, since breast milk tends to make it harder for him to break down the bilirubin. I had really mixed emotions about that because I did not want to mess up his routine of breastfeeding by making him nipple confused. She evaluated him and wrote orders for us to be admitted to the hospital and for Camden to be placed under the bili lights. She said that for the next 24 hours he would have to eat formula while under the lights as well as have all his diaper changes under the lights. They would redraw a bilirubin level at 6:00 pm as well as draw some other lab work and we would go from there. So Mom and I drove over to DCH hospital where Camden was admitted. He was stripped down to nothing but a 'bikini', which is basically a mask that was tied on each side and had some cool daddy cloth sunglasses.


Camden under the bili lights

His little butt crack - so cute


He was placed under the lights, where he remained for 30 hours. At his next bilirubin level check, he was down to 14.2 and then Tuesday morning it was 12.0. He was to still remain under the lights until his next bili check which was scheduled for 6:00 pm. Now let me stop here and say that he was such a trooper. Those warm lights had him feeling like he was catching some rays on a beach (at least that is what I like to think). It was definitely harder on us than on him since you only have 10 inches from him to the bili lights and that is the amount of room you have to feed him or change his diaper!! And needless to say, sleep was no where in his repertoire for both nights. By the time I would feed him formula, clean his poopy diapers, than pump for 30 minutes or so, it was pretty much time to turn around and do it all again. So his bili level on Tuesday evening was somewhere around 7 and he was allowed to come out of the light and I could breast feed, but had to alternate with formula every other time. I was so grateful to finally get to hold my sweet baby boy, since it had been 30 hours since I was able to do so. Now by this time, I had started displaying cold like symptoms with a cough and scratchy throat - not surprising due to the lack of rest - but I wouldn't trade that for anything. So once again, Camden had his days and nights mixed up and after his midnight feeding, could not seem to get settled before it was time for his next feeding. FINALLY at 3:40 am I got him to sleep and had him comfy cozy in this little bassinet and don't you know the dang PCA (nursing assistant) came in to check his temp rectally and so by the time she undressed him, he was crying and ticked. So needless to say, another night without sleep. Amazingly enough, Shane was able to sleep (in a not so comfy recliner) through all the fun both of those nights!! He was a trooper since he had to get up at 5:00 am in order to get home and take a shower before his student teaching. So again, at 6:00 am they did yet another heel stick for his bili level and it was great, 8.0, only up a little - which is expected. His weight that morning was 6 pounds 1 ounce. We were told we could go on home and to just follow up for his 2 week check up. WOO HOO !!!! We were home by 11:30 am on Wednesday morning - so good to be back at home.

Today has been a run of the mill day except for me, which my cold seems to be worsening. I just keep hoping and praying that I don't pass it onto Camden. Last night (Wednesday) he did not sleep well at all, and I have decided that tonight I am going to bundle him up a bit more and see if he will sleep better. Now that we are home, perhaps I can take a bit better care of my self with the needed sitz baths and rest in order to help the healing process. So, that is pretty much an overview of the past week. My apologies for the length of this entry, but so much to tell. I have never been more proud to be a mother and look forward to sharing what life has to throw at us as parents of such a precious gift.


Shane and me with Camden