Sunday, February 28, 2021

Reunited

I called my mom today to chat and she told me that she and Dad had a window visit with grandma. She said grandma did not appear to being doing well and was not very attentive during the visit, which is hard when you are one side of the window and she is on the other. Once they got home, dad received a call from the hospice nurse asking him if he wanted to actually go inside and visit with her. So for the first time in over a year, dad got to have an up close and personal visit with grandma. According to my mom, the visit was not great as grandma goes in and out of being awake. When I asked if I could come and visit, my dad was not sure if I would be allowed in and he felt that I should remember her when she was better. Honestly, I did not care how she was, I just wanted to touch her and hug her one more time.

That evening I went with Melissa and Shawn to watch Braden play soccer. This was the first time I had been able to go this season. With COVID, they started out saying only 4 people from a family could go at a time and with our families schedule, there was never a good time I could go. He and his team played well and won. They are having a great season and I really enjoy watching him play!



On Thursday, mom texted me and asked if I still wanted to go in and see grandma. They only allow one person at a time and my aunt was coming in late Friday evening and staying through Monday. Well of course I would!!! We have a tournament scheduled for this weekend, with the first game being Friday night at 6:00pm and then two games Saturday and then Sunday if they win and Camden had soccer Saturday morning, but surely I could make it there. So we decided I would take off work Friday, leave for Kerrville the same time the boys go to school, around 6:30am, and then I would head home after my visit so I could be home in time for Casen's baseball game.

So I did just that. After I got Casen dressed up as an old man (basically a shirt and tie) for the 100th day of school, snapped a picture of him and sent them on their way, I headed for Kerrville. 


I got to my parents around 10:00 or so and had an appointment for 11:30. My dad drove me to the nursing home, I got signed in and took my COVID test. I swore I would never take a COVID test, but for my grandma, I would do anything. They had me swab myself and I was a nervous wreck doing it. What if I was asymptomatic positive and drove all this way for something I have been waiting to do for over a year and tested positive??? I would be distraught. Luckily, I was negative. I put on my N95 they issued me and headed in to see my sweet grandma. She definitely did not look as good as the last time I saw her. She had lost weight and seemed very weak. She of course knew who I was and was happy to see me. We took selfies together, as we always do and I got some great smiles out of her. She of course asked about my boys and then napped quite a bit. When her lunch came, I attempted to feed her some, but she took maybe 3 bites and was done. It was hard to see her that way, but oh my gosh, it was so good to hug her and love on her. I was not in a good place prior to this visit and was angry that if something happened to her that I never got to love on her one last time. But I can tell you, if the good Lord was to take her home now, I would be at peace. 



After my visit with grandma, and a brief visit with my parents, I headed back home, picked up Camden and headed to the ball field to watch Casen play some baseball. It was a great game and after having a double and base clearing triple, Casen was named player of the game. 




Caden House or Casen Hood?? LOL
So proud!

It was a great weekend of games for the boys. Camden won his first soccer game of the season and Casen's team won their first tournament of the season. I know I say it all the time, but I so love watching my boys play the games they love.


Camden going against his friend
and classmate, Moneet.






Check out the Green Ring!!!


Sunday, February 21, 2021

The Great Freeze

Where to begin with yet another uncommon occurrence, which seems to be happening more and more these days . . . Upon leaving school last Friday, we knew a big freeze was coming and while we had a remote day scheduled for Monday, our school district already cancelled school for Tuesday. Most did not panic and just did what they normally do in preparation for a freeze - you know, the wrapping of the pipes, covering their outdoor plants, etc. Of course others went and wiped out the grocery store shelves yet again.

On Saturday, Camden went to Braden's soccer game with Camden and Eli. Melissa and Shawn left with several other couples to go to Mexico on Saturday and Mason came home to stay with Braden as well as Eli (since his parents were also on the trip). It was rather cold since the freeze was coming, but Camden enjoys being around his cousins so away he went. 


Sunday was Valentine's Day and the boys were excited to received Fortnite V-Bucks gift cards. Never in my life did I think I would spend money on a gift card to spend on a video game, but here I am. . .  never say never!!! 



At 11:09 am that morning, it was 34 and a Winter Storm Warning was in effect. 



By 8:00pm, it was 28 degrees and sleeting. Luckily, we still had electricity at this time because others were not so lucky. Nina was in her sweater and all snuggled up trying to stay warm. 


Monday morning we woke up to snow on the ground and a temperature of 16 degrees. I had no desire to go outside, nor did I. I took all my pictures from the comfort of my own home. 


The cutest little paw prints
you ever did see!

We had ordered the boys some winter gear last week in preparation for the snow so they could be outside and play in it and not freeze to death. Shane took the boys to the neighborhood next door where there is a nice hill going down into a retention pond. The boys got their boogie boards and headed on their way to do some 'sledding'. They had a great time despite it being really cold out. They then came home and jumped on the trampoline that was covered in snow. 






Later that evening around 6:30 I had just, and I mean JUST, finished cooking some french fries and chicken breast patties in the air fryer when our lights went out. DANG IT!!! I knew it was coming as so many of our friends had already lost power. We got out the candles and had a candle lit dinner of chicken sandwiches and french fries. Really classy, right? After dinner, since it was dark and there was no wifi for the boys, they just played some games on their ipads and we got out the blankets to keep warm. The temperature started dropping in the house so we all bundled up with more clothes and blankets and Camden ended up falling asleep on the couch and Shane in a recliner. After opening the cabinets under the bathroom sinks and having all faucets drip water, Casen and I headed to my bed. I am not sure about Camden and Shane, but Casen and I pretty much stayed warm during the night thanks to the down comforter on the bed. I just kept praying that no pipes would freeze and in turn bust.


When we woke up Tuesday morning it was 12 degrees outside and I have no clue what the temperature was inside as our thermostats are all powered by electricity and I did not have a thermometer otherwise that I could check. But I do know that it was cold, I was miserable and my Raynauds had kicked in and I was freezing. 

Raynauds sucks!

I now understand hibernation as I spent most of the day bundled up on the couch, not moving and eating very little while Shane remained bundled up in the recliner. Camden put together one of the Lego sets he received from his birthday while Casen played with the dog or whatever else he could find to do. In the midst of this all, you know what I was extremely frustrated with? The fact that we have a fireplace and could not use it. Since we have lived in our home, I have never had a key for the gas and at one point was going to buy gas logs, but instead bought decorative birch logs (teach me not to be cheap!). So here we sat in our living room, freezing, with something that could provide us heat, but since we have never used it was absolutely useless to us in our time of need. I will definitely be looking into gas logs in the near future!



I had been checking in with Mason to make sure things were OK over at the McAnear home and he reported that they still had electricity. The boys begged me to go over there - I think more so for the internet than the heat. So around 4:00 or so we headed over to their house. There was still snow on the ground and a few patches of ice, so were were extra careful driving over there. I tell you, I was never so happy to walk into a house with heat. It was great. Unfortunately, they had a pipe bust in the laundry room earlier that morning, so did not have running water, but had electricity! The boys hung out and played video games with Braden. They asked if they could spend the night since it was warmer there and Mason agreed. So I left them there and headed home for another cold night. Fortunately, the down comforter again kept us warm.

When I woke up Wednesday morning and checked on the boys. Mason said their power went out that morning. I headed over to pick up the boys around 10:30 and brought them home so they could take a hot shower. We may not have had electricity, but we did have hot water. Casen and I started putting together a puzzle and by 1:30PM, our power came back on!! Thank goodness!!! We cranked the heat up and after a few hours the electricity went off again, but luckily it wasn't off except for a few hours, and then came back on for good! After 43 hours of misery, it looked like things were finally improving. I know we were very fortunate as sooooo many had busted pipes and lots of water damage in their homes. Due to all the damage people sustained, school was cancelled for the whole week.  



On Wednesday evening, Casen started getting snotty. This is not unusual for this time of year for him so I just gave him some medication and we went on about our business. Thursday at 1:30am he woke up crying because his chest hurt. This was not surprising because he never blows his nose, he just sucks it up and then it drains down into his chest. By Thursday at dinner he started saying he couldn't taste or smell. I did not fret too bad as when my allergies get really bad or I get a bad cold I can't taste or smell either. But then, after supper he ate some Beanboozled jelly beans that were rotten milk and he could not taste it at all. Ugh!!! Despite my mommy gut telling me it was just his normal allergies, on Friday evening I decided I better schedule him for a COVID test because I would feel horrible if he had it, then I sent him to school on Monday and he infected others. So until he had his test that was scheduled for Saturday afternoon, we made him quarantine from everyone and he had to wear his mask in the house. Saturday afternoon we headed to CVS and I stuck the swab up his nose to perform the rapid test. The lady there told us we should hear something within an hour. By the time we pulled into the neighborhood 15 minutes later, they called us to say he tested negative. Woo Hoo!!!! 

Looking like Democrats riding in our car with
masks heading to the testing site. LOL!!!

An old CVS turned into a testing site.

So glad this week is finally behind us and we can move on to warmer, healthier days!



Thursday, February 4, 2021

Camden Turns 11

Eleven . . , eleven? Really? All ready???? Where does the time go??? I can't believe that in two years I will have a teenager, then a few years more he will be driving, and then next thing I know he will be leaving the nest. It really is hard to grasp. There are times he is doing something and I catch a glimpse of him looking so much older than he is. It makes me stop in my tracks and reminds me to not try to rush life along as these times are oh so precious. 

Since his birthday was in the middle of the week, we had Shane's family over on Sunday and celebrated his birthday. As requested, I made the exact ice cream cake he wanted - yummy!!!! He received a Lego set he had been wanting as well as money and a few other odds and ends. Of course he is my child that money will burn a hole in his pocket if he doesn't spend it, so I gave him half and put the other half in his savings account. I know, such a mean mom, but one day he will thank me (at least I keep telling myself that!).



On his actual birthday, Camden opened his gifts from us (another Lego set and a gaming chair) and we sang happy birthday again. 

Camden likes to think that he is my
favorite and I always tell him he is
my favorite OLDEST child. :)